Abortion + Universal Facts

Today we’re speaking about our Goddess given right, the right to terminate. Abortion is a Woman’s private business in which no man has the right to interfere. No-one on the face of the Planet has the right to govern or control our reproductive organs or our lives. The end.

» Do not enter into debates with men or brainwashed, unconscious, dysfunctional people. Men do not Give Life! They have NO say – not ever! Bringing forth life on Earth is wholly foreign to their experience. It’s not something they do.

And steer clear of the religious nuts. Anti abortion is just another oppression tactic from the old school male order. None of their man made laws are set in stone, all of which need to be abolished, stat. It’s us highly conscious Women (and men) ready for the new Era who will lead the way up and out of this patriarchal quagmire. Seek out the savvy professionals who know better for your support and safety.

» We birth from within. We do not fools telling us when to push or to breathe! Steer clear of old school, male obs on repeat! Get off your backs, burn the stirrups and start owning your birth – or you’ll be ‘done to’ with all manner of abnormal, anti-birth, mal-practices, trauma and c-sections. Pregnancy & Birth is the Woman’s Domain. Humanity has plenty of patriarchy to unlearn – especially in maternity wards! Women have forgotten.

‘Woman is the Soul of the World, aligned with Nature who brings forth Life’ 

» Some Universal Facts

• It’s a Universal fact that you and only you have the right to decide
• It’s a Universal fact that no-one owns your reproductive system
• It’s a Universal fact that patriarchy created control, sorrow and shame
• Until you’ve given birth & brought forth Life, there’s a whole realm you know nothing about
• It’s a Universal fact that this is Souly + soley the Woman’s Domain
• It’s a Universal fact that ‘Woman is the Life Giving, Nurturing Principle here on Earth’
• It’s a Universal fact that You must give Life gladly in order to do it well
• It’s a Universal fact that this is your strictly your choice. The end.

Check this out …

Pluto is the symbol of Birth + Mother » Our Power Function. Our very Conscious, Active Principle here on Earth. Do you know who changed the symbol and ‘dwarfed’ the Planet? Yep, the very same paradigm that has waged unremitting war on the Feminine in their quest for control and greed over the last 2x millennia. Did you know king and clergy got their grubby hands on us and declared we would birth in sorrow? Now you do. They’ve since been telling us how to Birth and Mother with disastrous consequences. Thank goodness the Time has come to end it. Throw their books away. We’re designed for it in every way – the human race depends on it!

→ It’s a Universal fact that‘a Woman must give life willingly & gladly in order to do it well’. Bringing forth Life is our Goddess-given Gift and role. No-one has the right to interfere, shame, blame or control.

→ Since the dawn of Time, Mothering has always been a Free and Wise enterprise. Who fucked that up? Who monetized, punished, imprisoned and controlled that? Who has left us desperate and destitute to birth and live in sorrow? Who denied contraception and invented the hideous unwed mother homes, foundling hospitals and workhouses, run by clueless, dimwitted, pious and oftentimes sinister nuns and spinsters, in squalor? Yep, patriarchy. It’s time to wake up Ladies.

How do we know when patriarchy have achieved their goal?

When the damaged women (and men) carry out their dirty work. The mindset, theories, control and male order and way of doing things. Hideous. Cruel. Heartbreaking. Needless. Males got their grubby hands on us 800yrs ago and have since told us how to Birth and Mother with disastrous consequences. There’s major unlearning to be done here. Major! To undo the Handbook of the Inquisition.

The clergy who stated ‘no-one does more harm to the catholic faith than mother-midwives and abortion’ who was not averse to murdering pregnant women at the stake. Their male legislators have laughed with indifference in the face of the most hazardous and serious biological enterprise we undertake – pregnancy and birth. The Universal truth is: Until you’ve given birth, there’s a whole realm you know nothing about. No peanut on Earth can outsmart the Larger Cycles at work. The Truth always returns.

‘Mother + Home’ are written over every neolithic phase.

Males are not experts on the Feminine! And babies need their Whole Support System » their Mother. There’s plenty of patriarchy to unlearn; it will happen in our lifetime.

In the meantime, let’s get you back on track. For those of you in need of abortion, call out, seek support, move now and get yourself into a place of genuine, medical support and help. 

01. It’s Soul stuff

Just the very thought of abortion fills you with dread. It’s the worst decision you’ll ever have to make. It’s not a decision you make lightly. You know it’s Soul level stuff, between you and your baby. And you’ll never forget it. But deep down, you and only you know it’s the right thing to do. And that’s ok. The reasons and situations you consider abortion are wide and varied and strictly your own private business – from age, contraceptive accidents to rape and just simply saying no. Bringing forth Life is a huge task and responsibility from the moment you conceive to the moment they graduate.

» Facts:

• they have an orgasm, we do the rest.
• Birth and Motherhood is above and beyond biology + labs
• patriarchy has interfered with and messed up Birth + Mothering
• males are not Mothers
• our choice, always and ever
• no judgement

02. Shut them Out

Opinions, shame, blame, money, thoughts & opinions. Don’t listen to others. Well meaning or not. Everyone has an opinion, it will just cause you confusion. Listen to yourself. And seek wise counsel from mature Women, not your teenage friend. There’s major conditioning to be undone here. This patriarchal paradigm has caused all manner of pain, shame, death and heartbreak to Women and their Children over the last 2x millennia. Atrocious. Hideous. Criminal. Unacceptable. It’s time to offload this archaic mindset and conditioning.

» The impact, the wounding, to Women and children is too broad a subject to cover here so I’ll keep it simple and give you the basics. There’s a major, global, grieving process needed.

They’ve turned Mothering – a free and Wise enterprise – into a monetised, anti-mothering, unconscious exercise. With disastrous consequences. The downfall of the Mother-rite has been the downfall of us all. This is not our Natural State of Affairs Ladies. Yep, there’s major unlearning to be done here. Tune out at all costs for your safety and sanity. Go back to Nature. She restores your senses and sensibilities. Find a quiet place. Make an altar. Journal. Write out pros and cons and feelings. Do whatever you need to for you. Honour yourself. Eat well. Stress may interrupt your sleep so catnap. Take a day off. Self care. Educate yourself. Find a safe place for you and the procedure. Don’t go it alone. Speak to a professional.

03. Head Response

Your head (and emotions) will be tipped upside down, in overdrive and overwhelm, all over the place. This system is a reversed, anti-mothering system so your innate response will instantly be reversed into the following thought processes:

• Can I afford my baby?
• Accommodation? 
• Childcare?
• My food and shelter? 
• My age – too old or young?
• My support system/s?
• My income?
• My studies?
• My work/career?

The list goes on. And the answer is yes, you will. No matter what. Breastfeeding and co-sleeping is essential and free. It will give you time to get on your feet. Of course since the Dawn of Time we’ve Mothered in Mammalian Clans with Wise women, safety, support and essential rejuvenation. This will return to mainstream once again. Hold on, revolution and change is upon us.

My heart breaks for the millions of Women who have had their babies taken from them over the last 2x millennia. The amount of women who could not afford their babies in this shitful ‘man’s world’. The heartache and sorrow of Motherless children. Orphaned children. Neglected children. Adoptions. Foundling hospitals and the killings. The experiments. Nothing short of abhorrent and criminal.

04. The Grey Blanket

The after effects of abortion are seldom spoken about. The Mother-Daughter Dynamic has been stamped out in this paradigm so sadly Women and girls are left unwise and vulnerable. The Teachings were wiped out in the witch mania. Replaced with male/clergy control, shame, blame, danger, adoptions, judgement, detrimental + long lasting practices and heartbreak. The sheer audacity of it. Karma will out.

The immediate effects of an abortion are relief and sadness. You’ll feel relieved. You’ll know you’ve made the right decision. The overwhelm is gone. You’ll cry. You’ll go to work/school/life and go about your days as normal. Until things begin to unravel.

• You’ll feel numb. 
• You’ll realise you’ve lost your sense of Awe.
• You’ll see everything around you with lacklustre eyes.

» The Grey Blanket of Grief has kicked in. Withdrawal, Grief, Solitude, Self-preservation.

Precaution:

Left unchecked, the Emotional Cycle post abortion is detrimental. I know women still reeling from their abortion 40x years afterward. There are 2x reasons why:

• Your decision making process is now altered, second guessing yourself
• You’ll remain stuck in the Grief cycle, which changes over time, playing havoc

Even though you made the right decision for yourself, abortion is Soul stuff. On the one hand it was right, on the other it was great loss – a death. And the grief cycle consists of the gamut of emotions:

• Shock and denial
• Sadness, pain, grief
• Guilt
• Anger and injustice
• Blame, bargaining 
• What if …
• Depression, loneliness, anxiety
• Just for starters

Please do yourself a favour and seek professional help. Don’t let this make a mess of your life. Left unchecked, over time it will derail you and wreak havoc in your life. It’s easier than you think. You can sort this out in about 8-10 sessions.

Pro tip:

All unresolved matters surface again and again, begging to be resolved, no matter how hard we humans try to suppress and deny them. Suppressed emotions cause illness. If you do not make time for your wellness, you’ll be forced to make time for your illness. Read that again. There’s no chemical remedy for a spiritual problem.

05. Acceptance

I too have had an abortion. There are millions of us women who have. For all manner of reasons. Our reasons. Our private fucking reasons. You’re not alone. I too have encountered judgement and malpractice, from a Dr and well-intentioned medical staff. The referring male Dr conducted an unnecessary internal exam then scoffed at me and left me there. Asshole. The procedure staff, nurses, wheeled me in with my legs up, knees together prior to anaesthetic. I went to sleep knowing my legs would flop down. The message was ‘yes we’ll grant you an abortion but we’ll punish you for it too’ which traumatised me for years afterward. 

Know this:

The conditioning, stigma, dogma, control, punishments, imprisonments, techniques, parish children robbing, blaming and shaming, are patriarchal constructs, oppressive and still rife in this day and age. You know the venemous words: you’re a whore, the baby’s a bastard. No bad words for him. We have some work to do to flip it. And flip it we will, for all our Sistars around the world. Go back only 50-100 years ago and have a look at the shocking male birth practices (hideous!), ignorant beliefs, malpractices and experiments going on, still rampant in this paradigm. (with their bio-tech companies & uterine envy). Criminal! 

No matter what girlfriend, seek help and come out the other side with a hefty dose of healthy acceptance and forgiveness. And teach your daughters. And change laws. No one owns your reproductive system or your Life. This is 100% your choice! The end. 

Do you need help?

Depression after abortion is normal. The Grief Cycle is very real and serious if left unchecked. I have a step-by-step, 10x week Termination Recovery Course for you. This self paced mini course helps you through the Grief Cycle including bonus materials and tangible tips you can implement today. You’re only 8-10 steps away from feeling relief from grief. Drop me a line on my contact page here with the initials TR and I’ll send you the links.

Honour yourself with the gift of Power Birth and Conscious Mothering within our Clans again.

From my heart to yours, please take the very best care of yourself. To your stellar success and well-being always. Peace, love and shine bright.

‘Learn Matriarchy, change the world’

xx Amanda

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